The Magic of Music

Babies are born with an innate affinity for music. This is why singing lullabies calms a crying infant. I love watching my grandchildren respond to music. Little Willow grins with delight as she wiggles with the Wiggles on the TV screen, but when she is distraught and tired she has her favorite songs that calm her and help her go to sleep. I have another granddaughter who had a more “mature” taste in lullaby music. She found comfort in the voice of Johnny Cash. She was barely four when she became enthralled with Bruce Springsteen. (That took some parental supervision!)

My daughter sings with a local community chorale. I recently attended one of their concerts and enjoyed listening to their voices singing in harmony. I sat with a smile on my face. However, one of the songs they sang featured only the bass and tenor sections of the choir. And as they sang, my eyes filled with tears and my heart plummeted in sorrow. I was hit again with grief! The sound of those male voices reminded me of my husband’s love of singing and the loss of never hearing him sing again. This is the magic of music. It touches our emotions.

Music acts like the magic key
to which the most tightly closed hearts will open.
–Maria Von Trapp

Music can provoke passions, inspire unity, and move people to action. An example of this can be found in the 1912 workers’ strike against the abusive textile mill owners in Lawrence, MA. Included among those refusing to work were a large number of immigrant women. Many credited the success of the strike to the solidarity of these women. But Katherine Paterson, author of “Bread and Roses, Too” makes this comment: Others said it was the songs that brought the strikers to victory. Little red books containing union songs were passed out. Although most of the women couldn’t read English, somehow they learned to sing in a way that made the police and militia tremble. ‘Beware that movement,’ one observing journalist said, ‘that generates its own songs.

Then there is the story of the young musician who took his talent and an old upright piano into the underground world of the New York City subway. As he began to play and sing the well-known Beatles song “Hey Jude”, something magical happened! John Colapinto describes it this way: In the course of two minutes, the potentially dangerous netherworld of the New York City subway… where eye contact is assiduously avoided, was transformed into a place of joy, camaraderie, connection…everyone on both platforms –male and female, Black and white, young and old– was singing, clapping, smiling at one another. The transformation was miraculous. This is what music can do!

There is all of this potential for music to improve lives.
–Neuroscientist Jolene Johnson

Music has the ability to comfort and soothe, to encourage and inspire, to give joy and bring peace and hope. It has been found to be an instrument of healing for the hurting and the aged and even those suffering from dementia. Because music touches the soul, it lingers and provides solace when nothing else will. Carol Rosenstein whose husband struggles with dementia put it this way in an article written by Hannah Chenoweth: Music helps people find hope and joy, even in their darkest hour of suffering!

When my husband passed away a few years ago, my sorrow was deep. I hurt. But as I struggled to sleep at night, God ministered to me. Not through Scripture or prayer, but through song. As I lay alone and awake at night, a song would come to my mind, and the words and the melody would speak to my heart. Often I would listen to these songs in the night and they would bring me the comfort and the peace that I needed. I will never forget those precious times of God reaching out to me through music.

In the night His song shall be with me
–Psalm 42:8

Music is God’s gift to us. It is a blessing that reaches deep inside of us and can connect us to God Himself. This is why music is an integral part of our worship. It speaks to our needs, prepares our hearts to receive, and leads us to praising Him.

Speak to one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, [offering praise by] singing and making melody with your heart to the Lord. –Ephesians 5:19 (AMP)

Music does not just touch our emotions; it affects and influences are very inner well-being. Whether you’re singing the blues or worshipping God with songs of praise, whether you’re playing classical piano or listening to classic rock, whether you’re crooning a country ballad or just enjoying some jazz, your life is made better by that music. It’s not a cure-all or an emotional panacea, but it is a blessing. Music can express abundant joy and celebrate life! It can also soothe a troubled soul. Music can lift us out of depression and transport us to other places. What an amazing gift God has given us!

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What Am I Here For?

Most people talk to themselves and that’s okay. It’s normal. I have heard it said that it’s okay to talk to yourself, just don’t answer yourself! But the problem with that lighthearted admonition is that most of the conversations I have with myself begin with a question. And it seems the older I get the more questions I have to ask myself! I ask questions like: Why can’t I sleep? What am I going to do today? Where did I put that thing? What was I doing? What was I saying? What was I thinking? (Although that last one is often said with an exclamation mark!!) Recently the question I have been asking is: What am I here for? You know the scenario. I go from one room into another, I stop and look around, and I am at a loss. I can’t remember what I wanted to do in that room, so I have to ask myself, “What am I here for?” But sometimes when I ask that question I have something deeper in mind.

What am I here for? What’s the point? What’s my purpose in this world? I feel this more now as I am elderly (I hate that word!) and disabled and dependent on others. I am a widow, my children are grown and on their own, my role in life has changed, and so I ask, What am I here for? Perhaps I am not actually asking myself, but in reality I’m questioning God.

Many years ago a children’s worker overheard a mother ask her daughter as she retrieved her from the children’s church service, “Did you have fun?” The teacher reprimanded the mother, “We’re not here to have fun.” I still cringe at the memory. What a way to dampen a child’s enthusiasm for church and for God! But her statement leads us back to the question, what are we here for?

It’s a question philosophers wrestle with and theologians strive to answer.

The great existential question that has plagued every philosopher all the way back through recorded history goes something like this:
‘Why are we here?’ To state it theistically, ‘Why were we created?’
–Tyler Staton
(Praying Like Monks, Living Like Fools)

It’s not an easy question with a simple answer. We only scratch the surface of the why and the how. But I do know God’s answer for me.

When I was a young pastor’s wife, new to the ministry and full of self-doubt, I struggled with insecurity. I remember clearly attending a large conference for ministers and their spouses. I felt so small and insignificant, plain and awkward in a crowd of beautiful, successful people. I was a nobody full of self-pity. But God saw me! As the congregation stood to sing a popular chorus of that time, God spoke to me through that song. They sang: Thou art worthy. Thou art worthy, O Lord. For Thou hast created, hast all things created, and for Thy pleasure they are created and God personalized it for me! I sang it like this: and for Thy pleasure I was created!! Imagine that! You and I exist for God’s pleasure!

That chorus is based on Revelation 4:11.

Thou art worthy, O Lord, to receive glory and honor and power: for thou hast created all things and for thy pleasure they were and are created.
–Revelation 4:11 (KJV)

Most newer Bible versions translate the phrase ‘for thy pleasure’ as ‘by thy will’. He created us, because He wanted to. The NLT puts it this way: “For you created all things and they exist because you created what you pleased.” And He is pleased with what He created! In Genesis, He calls it good. In Psalm 139 we are described as “wonderfully complex” and “marvelous”. Simply put, we are here, because He wants us here and it pleases Him. He is pleased with what He has made and that includes you.

How precious are your thoughts about me, O God.
They cannot be numbered!
–Psalm 139:17 (NLT)

Certainly our being here is not just a whim to please a far away God. He is very personal and has a purpose and plan for each individual. That is made clear to us in Scripture.

For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.
–Ephesians 2:10 (NIV)

The NLT of this verse declares we are “God’s masterpiece” and the AMP describes us as “His own master work, a work of art”.
Now that’s something to think about!

When my husband passed away, I moved from a three bedroom house to one room in my daughter’s home, so I had to drastically downsize. I had choices to make. This included what pictures to keep and hang on the walls of my new room. I couldn’t take many, but one I decided to keep was a picture of a woman alone in a field with a sickle in her hand. I chose it for a reason. It’s a reminder to me that even though I no longer have my partner in ministry, as a woman alone, I still have work to do for God.

Sometimes I still struggle and wonder and ask the question, “What am I here for?” But then I remember and I tell myself that I am here for Him!

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Help & Support

Recently I flew from Buffalo to Houston to visit my sister. I hadn’t seen her in over ten years! But as we’ve gotten older, even though we now live far apart, we have realized that we need each other. She is my only sibling and I desperately wanted to spend some time with her. Because I have a disability and am basically confined to a wheelchair, I do not take trips alone. I want and need someone I know and trust to be with me for help and support. (This time it was my daughter who traveled with me, and I am thankful she was there, because I definitely needed her help.)

While I was in Texas, I enjoyed seeing all the palm trees that were in the area and often lined the streets. These beautiful trees stand tall and stretch high towards the sky. To me they are elegant and exotic. But what I really noticed were the wooden supports at the base of some of the trees. I wondered about it and thought maybe palm trees aren’t as strong as they appear.

I learned a few things. Palm trees are quite resilient to the wind, even the strongest winds of a hurricane. They bend with the force of the storm and are not easily broken or uprooted. They have a somewhat shallow, but very wide, horizontal root system that keeps them standing. However, when a palm tree is initially planted, these roots are not yet developed and the wooden braces are attached to give the trees the support they need to face the storm.

Some of us need help and support, too. I am not a strong person. My physical disability is degenerative and worsens with time, so I am accustomed to asking for help when I need it. It’s always been a part of my life. But it’s different when the support we need is of an emotional or spiritual nature. This kind of need is not easily recognized, and we hesitate to ask for that kind of help because we don’t want to be seen as weak.

The Bible urges us to have strong roots! We are exhorted to be “rooted and grounded in love”, to be “rooted and built up in Him” and to be “established in the faith.” We are told in Proverbs that “the root of the righteous shall not be moved.” But sometimes when the strong winds of life blow our way, our roots don’t always feel strong enough. This is when we need the help and support of those around us. And that’s okay. God does not condemn us when we are weak. Instead, we are urged to be an encouragement to each other. This verse in 1 Thessalonians is very clear:

Comfort the fainthearted, uphold the weak, be patient with all.
–1 Thessalonians 5:14 (NKJV)

Encourage the timid and fainthearted, help and give your support to the weak souls, [and] be very patient with everybody.
–1 Thessalonians 5:14 (AMPC)

Sometimes I feel like that newly planted palm tree facing a storm and in need of help and support to remain unscathed and whole. But I also hope there are times that I can be the support that helps someone else to remain standing in their own personal storm. This is what it means to “Carry each other’s burdens…” (Galatians 6:2).

I am reminded of a popular song from the 70’s by Bill Withers titled “Lean On Me.” Here are some of the lyrics:

Sometimes in our lives
We all have pain
We all have sorrow

Lean on me
When you’re not strong
And I’ll be your friend
I’ll help you carry on…

For it won’t be long
Till I need somebody to lean on

You just call on me, brother,
When you need a hand
We all need somebody to lean on

I just might have a problem that you’ll understand
We all need somebody to lean on

If there is a load you have to bear
That you can’t carry
I’m just up the road
I’ll share your load
If you just call me.

That song expresses it well. It’s about sharing burdens and holding each other up during difficult times. Depending on someone else is a mutual and universal need that we all have at some point in our lives. Not only should we be there for one another, but we also shouldn’t be afraid to ask for help and support when we need it. It’s a fact and it’s a blessing: we need each other!

If you need HELP & SUPPORT, please ask!

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Believe!

I am the recipient of another new mug. This one is rather ordinary and plain, but it is decked out for the holidays! Wrapped in a white knitted cozy, it is especially cute because it has a miniature red plaid scarf wrapped around it as well. The mug holds a transparent Christmas ball ornament that actually has a hot chocolate mix inside of it. One word is written on the decoration: BELIEVE!

It’s become quite common to encourage people to believe. The object of that belief can vary, but often the injunction to believe is focused on believing in yourself. I live in western New York which is Buffalo Bills territory. So around here we are encouraged to “Billieve!” It’s a play on words that urges us to believe in our football team. (And that’s not always easy!)

Urging people to believe has also become a popular part of celebrating Christmas. We see it in the holiday decorations and on our Christmas cards. It is often a theme in Christmas music, movies and commercials. A few years ago when I was watching the Macy’s Thanksgiving Parade on TV, I noticed the decorations Macy’s had on their store. Hanging on the side of the building in huge letters was that one word: BELIEVE.

What is it that we are to believe in at Christmas? Children, of course, are often encouraged to believe in Santa Claus. Adults, on the other hand, are admonished to believe in the Christmas spirit or the goodness of humanity or the positive vibes of the season. But all these things are not worthy of our belief. This kind of believing leads only to disappointment.

I do, however, want to encourage you to believe! Not in some nebulous, feel good concept, but in the One who was born in a stable. Jesus often gets neglected and forgotten during the holiday season, but He is the who and the why of our Christmas day! Believing in Him has eternal rewards!

For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son that whoever believes in Him will not perish, but have eternal life.
–John 3:16

For the Scripture says,
‘Whoever believes in Him will not be disappointed’.
  –Romans 10:11

Jesus Himself exhorts you to believe for in John 14:1 He declares, “Let not your heart be troubled. You believe in God; believe also in me.”

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